Will The Real Mr. Darcy Please Stand Up
July 27th, 2006

Disclaimer: I’ve only watched the movie and not read the book. Please use a measure of grace when throttling me in your response.
Ladies, I’m going to need your help with this one. First, an admission; I watched Pride and Prejudice last night. On my own, it wasn’t with a group, or because of a girl, just because I wanted to know what the deal was with Mr. Darcy. To answer the question, why are so women taken with this character?
I’m sorry to be a dumb guy here, but I don’t get it. Why all the hype? He announces his affection for Elizabeth and is rejected but keeps his head in the game by doing things behind the scenes. She totally misjudges, and then puts him through the ringer. I don’t see how the book and movie are hailed as incredible. She dismisses him because he’s not good at communication. His silence or lack of disclosure is a put off to her. If I had a nickel for every time I miscommunicated with a woman… lets just say, I don’t think I’d be working. I’m not trying to be insensitive (even though I may be succeeding), I understand the idea of chase.
So please… help me out. What’s the deal? Why is Mr. Darcy the end all be all? Why is this story hailed as understanding the key to a woman?
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